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Dating selfish person

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Thank you so much for all that you do. Or in my case, a series of narcissists? I know I deserve more than that. It seems like a slew of articles came out "Dating selfish person" the subject and now everyone Dating selfish person their mother has suddenly turned into a diagnostic therapist.

But is this really fair? Do we really know enough about that person to put that label on them? I say all this not to make you feel bad for using the word. As women, we take those intuitive skills for granted. Now we can really get somewhere! It just means that thinking of others in that way is outside his comfort zone and intuitive skillset. Relationships and social skills and communication scare him. So he falls back on what works for him in the workplace his comfort zone — he talks himself up, he acts like an expert, and he takes charge of the meeting.

All we really need to know is — Can you bring out another side of him or not? If you can, enjoy it! Stop asking HIM questions. Feel free to interrupt. When he is going to shut up? When he is going to ask me a question? This guy is such a narcissist! You have a voice, right?

When selfish lovers give up...

You have something to say, right? That means he wants to be around you, he wants to get to know you, he wants you to have a good time. TMI is often discouraged socially.

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Let me give you an example: Instead of stabbing yourself or HIM! Find something within his story that relates to you in any way. Places you want to travel?

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Classes and education of any kind? Craziest food you ever had? What sparks a genuine interest and passion in you? And then run with it.

Let it take you to talk about whatever YOU want to talk about. Will he cringe at your selfishness? Besides, men LOVE it when a woman lights up. TMI and then ask a question about the topic that interests you. For example, I like healthy cooking and creativity, so I might say: I love how every culture has such a different and unique story with food.

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